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Complaining: Destructive Energy

All this ... I can’t stand this anymore, everything is against me. "
"I can’t anymore, it's too much for me, again and again ... that's enough!"

The energy of complaining is destructive, it subtracts positive lymph from our being, giving the opportunity to blow off steam at the time, it makes you feel better because it allows us to let off some tension, it sets us tone but does not make us walk towards, move towards ... it forces us to slip back into darkness where the need for a new lament will be incessant and essential.
An old and tiny toxic addiction that, in exchange for a few moments of relief, poisons the mind and spirit.
We will never get well this way, we are stuck.
The proactive approach is what makes us win, it’s what creates value, what makes us say:
"Ok, this is the situation, how can I do to improve it? How can I improve myself? How can I bring value in what I'm doing? "
It’s necessary to develop a different attitude that creates a different appreciation, which in turn creates a different sharing. I would like to suggest a quote from Alfred Souza:
" For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time to still be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. "
Erison said that the secret to success is not to give up, I believe that winning is precisely in these words ... never give up until the end, until victory. Absolute victory!

With enthusiasm,
Rossella Bartolozzi

You are the Result of Yourself

Don’t blame anyone;
don’t complain about anything or anyone because fundamentally you have made your life.

Accept the responsibility of the construction of your life and the courage to accuse yourself when you fail to start over again, rectifying yourself. The triumph of the real man arises from the ashes of error. Don’t complain about the environment, or of the things that surround you, there are those that in the same atmosphere were able to succeed, the circumstances are good or bad depending on the strength of your heart. Do not complain about your poverty, of your solitude or your luck, confront with courage and accept that one way or another they are the result of your actions, and the proof that you need. Do not become bitter with your own failure and don’t blame others, accept yourself now or you will continue to justify yourself like a child, remember that any moment is good enough to start again, and that no moment is horrible enough to give up.

Stop lying to yourself; you are the result of yourself, of your necessity, of your failure. If you have been ignorant, irresponsible, you and only you, no one else could have been this for you. Do not forget that the result of your present is your past, just as the result of your future is your present. Learn from the strong, the audacious, imitate the violent, the energetics, the winners, and the ones that don’t accept situations, those that triumphed in spite of everything. Think less of your problems, and more in your work, and your problems without food will die. Learn to grow from pain, and to be bigger, which is the biggest of the obstacles. Look at the mirror of yourself.

Start being honest with yourself, recognizing your value, your willpower and your weakness to justify yourself. Remember that inside of you there is a force that can accomplish everything, recognizing yourself, stronger and freer, and you will stop being a puppet of the circumstances because you are your own destiny and no one can substitute you in the construction of your destiny. Wake up and look at the mountains and breathe the light of the morning dew. You are part of the strength of life. Never think of luck because luck is the excuse that losers rely on.

Pablo Neruda